நல்ல விவாதம்

நேற்று விஜய் தொலைகாட்சியில் நீயா நானா விவாதம் நன்றாக இருந்தது. சமூக எழுத்தாளர்கள் இட ஒடுக்கிடு சிறுபான்மை மக்களின் நலம் குறித்து விளக்கம் தந்தது நன்றாக இருந்தது...ஆனால் கல்லூரி மாணவர்கள் பக்கம் இருந்தவர்கள் இன்னும் நன்றாக பேசி இருக்கலாம்..நன்றாக சமூக நலன் அரசியல் அறிவு உள்ள கல்லூரி மாணவர்கள் இருக்கிறார்கள்...உதாரணமாக பாலாஜி திருமூர்த்தி போன்ற நண்பர்கள்....அவர்களை விவாதர்திக்கு அழைத்து இருந்தால் இன்னும் நன்றாக இருந்திருக்கும் ...வியாபார நிகழ்சிகளுக்கு இடைய இது நல்ல விவாதமாக இருண்டது... சமூக உணர்வுகள் இன்றைய கல்வியில்  மழுங்கடிக்க செய்கிறது ..அறிவியல் மட்டும் வாழ்க்கை இல்லை...சமூக அறிவியலின் முக்கியத்துவத்தை உணர்த்தும் வண்ணம் பேசிய எழுத்தாளர்களுக்கு வாழ்த்துக்கள்...

Wish you happy married life Adaikkan

இன்று என் கல்லுரி நண்பர் அடைக்கண் திருமணம் பொன்னமராவதியில் நடக்கிறது... என் இதயம் கனிந்த வாழ்த்துக்கள்!!!  சென்னையில் நங்கள் ஒன்றாக தங்கி இருந்தோம்.. நங்கள் எல்லாம் EEE படித்து IT துறையில் வேலை செய்த பொது குறைந்த வருமன்டத்தில் எலெக்ட்ரிக் துறையில் வேலை செய்து மிக எளிமையான முறையில் இருந்தவர்..."Maths நல்ல பண்ணுவ ...நீ எளிதாக IT துறையில் சாதிக்க முடியும் " என்று நான்  சொன்ன போது  "எனக்கு நாம் படித்த துறையிலே வேலை செய்வதுதான் பிடிகுறது...எனக்கு இந்த வருமானம் போதும் நண்பா !!! என்னை நான் மற்றவங்களோட ஒப்பித்து பார்பதில்லை " என்று சொல்லி வாழ்ந்தவர். இன்று தமிழ்நாடு மின்னியல்  துறையில் பொறியாளர் பதவியில் நேர்மையுடன் வெள்ளை செய்கிறார்...உன் போன்ற நேர்மை மனிதர்களால் அரசு துறைகள் சிறக்கட்டும்.. என்னால் சில சூழ்நிலைகளால் நேரில் வந்து வாழ்த்து சொல்ல முடியவில்லை....மன்னிககவும்...உன் திருமண  வாழ்க்கை சிறக்க என் வாழ்த்துக்களும்..செபங்களும்....with our room மாதேஷ் அலெக்ஸ், நடராஜ்..எடிசன்..stephan  குமார் and  my family 

Just a moment thought after long time..

After two years, Just I opened my blog pages and saw...I wondered....Few unknown persons saw my blogs and appreciated. In 2008, I used to send good morning emails with quotes. My HCL Friend Mathan suggested me to put in blog  and so I put in whatever I collected.Mostly quotes are taken from magazines and shared.  Some of friends frankly said  to me that they can't read all in between busy work schedules...Sometimes i too thought whether I am such a great one to talk about various philosophy. Also whether it is worth to copy quotes from magazines and share....After I entered into facebook in 2010, i shared some thoughts..Some words in my mother tongue...Because recently i just put my thoughts in Tamil Elam and Tamilnadu state politics....I just followed few Facebook friends who emphasis on Tamil issues..I admire thoughts of Few FB friends...In between their work, they write something for people...For example ("Indru oru thagaval" )

    But after I looked into comments of few unknown persons, I am thinking why we are persist ..may not be everyday ...at least once in a week or month....

   In last two and half years, Many things happened to me..Get closer to many and get distance from some close friends..I got Father promotion and owner of new house with depth.... Office changes...Location changes..Previously i used to stick with regular routines and places..But now I am adhere to changes ,new places etc...Way to go...Thank God..he made me to come across lot of things and made to realize lot in life... I haven't achieved anything...Still not financially independent..But met many good people and spent time with them...Luckily i had good family circles.and keeping them and few friends in sync with my happiness..
With passion and love, seeing way to Go....

With perfect trust in God's love and care,
I'll walk to my journey's end;
And day by day He will strength renew;
And peace to my heart will send.
O blessed Guide, walking all unseen,
Yet close to my side always,
Do Thou, who guidest my steps aright
Lead on to eternal day!

Let us go ...

Regards

Jaison...

Discovering ourselves

TRAIN YOUR BRAIN

The best activities for stimulating the growth of brain cells are those that inspire nerve cells to activate additional circuits. Try these simple tricks Practise using both hands at once. Bounce two balls, stir two cups of tea. Try throwing two wads of paper at a basket, one overhand and one underhand simultaneously. Think up 25 uses for a toothpick or elastic band. Do math problems in your head instead of on a calculator. Decide to learn one new word a day. Write a set of instructions for an everyday task, such as tying your shoelaces. Use your non-dominant hand to brush your teeth, eat or make-up. Or pick things up with your feet. Close your eyes and move around your home. Concentrate on how you sense the presence of furniture or other people. Navigate by listening, smelling, even feeling different air temperatures. Look inside your wardrobe for a few minutes, then shut the door. Make a descriptive list of everything inside. How much did you remember? You can try this with a painting or photograph. Shake up one routine each day. Take a new route to home, a new sport instead of your normal workout. – Self–improvement DO U KNOW WHY IS THE BODY WARM? Why is the Body Warm? In order for the body to carry on its functions efficiently it needs energy. This energy is obtained through a process called combustion. The fuel for the combustion is the food that we take in. The result of the combustion is mild, exactly regulated warmth. There are substances in the body whose job it is to combine oxygen with the fuel in an orderly, regulated way. The body maintains an average temperature regardless of what is going on outside. This is done by the centre in the brain known as the temperature centre, which consists of three parts: a control centre which regulates the temperature of the blood, one that raises the temperature of the blood when it drops, and a third that cools the blood when the temperature is too high.

From Mirrors For the Heart

INTERDEPENDENCE

All the five children in a family were well settled. They had attended Business, Management and Medical schools, and has businesses and clinics of their own. Their mother was once asked how she had inspired them. She explained that several people had embarrassed her by asking her the same question, when in fact she felt that she had done very little. She had never insisted that her children do their homework; neither did she scold them when their report cards showed low grades. It was rather the children who loved each other so much that they had set high standards for themselves and checked on one another; that made the difference. She recalled an incident when her daughter showed her the report card with less than the expected marks. The mother placed it aside without comment. When the girl’s older brother saw it, however, he called her aside and gave her a pep talk about maintaining family standards. As a consequence, there was a dramatic increase on her grades in the next text. She loved her brother so much to let him down. A Good Family is like a cricket team – with Mum pitching, Dad catching, the kids fielding and everyone taking a turn at bat. – Mirrors for the Heart TOMORROW Two wise men, walking down the road of Time, saw Tomorrow approaching dimly in the distance. They shouted, “Tell us, Tomorrow, what are you like? Shall we fear you or feast you? Tomorrow answered, “Come to me neither with anxiety nor with procrastination, but with faith and hope and Today’s work well done. You cannot know what I am like, but you shall see me through the eyes of what you are.” Happy Weeekend!!!!

BE AT PEACE WITH SELF

BE AT PEACE WITH SELF

Few People are at peace with themselves. The technologically advanced society seems to contribute nothing to establish inner peace. We have sensations of fear, ailments, frustration and worry. Trials will be always with us. learn to forget the old ones and deal with those that keep cropping up by taking the following steps:
==> Be calm. Try to understand yourself and understand others. it will be easier if you lessen the tension of life by not expecting too much from yourself and from others.
And when you feel upset by some difficulties: Face up to them,
Take a hard look at yourself. Keep cool. learn to hide your aches and pains under a pleasant smile.
==> Be realistic. Avoid the illusion that if this hadn't happened, you would have had a more peaceful life. don't blame someone else for your unhappiness. inner peace is only found when you realize that you must change yourself.
==> Forgive and forget. The real trick is not to forget the past, but to learn from the past and try to use it to help yourself and others.
==> Let it be. it is another releaser closely related to letting go of the past. if you feel irritated, just let the feeling of irritation be there, neither encouraging nor discouraging it. it will diminish.

-From the book "Living the Marvel of Life"

Wisdom Evergreen thought....

TIME PRESSURE

Pong was a great perfectionist but had a typical nature of doing everything at the eleventh hour. He used to give all the assignments at the last minute and abuse people for not doing them perfectly. Once he decided to go on a tour. As usual he found that he had not enough stock of cloths. He went to the tailor and told him, "Exactly within two hours you have to prepare my clothes. By evening i will collect them. And i am a perfectionist, so put aside all your other works." The tailor said, "Okay - but have you had a look at the world?" Pong asked, "What do you mean?" The tailor said, "God created this world. do you see the mess? i can make your clothes in two hours, but they will be all in a mess. it is up to you to choose." Pong said, "You are right." And saluted the old tailor.

Success in Work: There are ten simple but great wands of success in work:
1. DeSiRe to make things better.
2. AlErTNESS wide open to everything.
3. iNTErEST in digging below the surface.
4. CUriOSiTY in constant enquiry.
5. THOUGHTFUlNESS in thorough understanding.
6. CONCENTrATiON to explore matters in depth.
7. APPliCATiON of effort.
8. PATiENCE to study work in detail.
9. OPTiMiSM in believing in youself.
10. COOPERATION with others.